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Relationship Counselling

Relationships are a core component of our existence as human beings. They are a key determinant of us living healthy, happy and hopeful lives. However, while relationships have the potential to bring us much joy and happiness, problems in relationships can also bring immense pain and often untold misery and suffering.

My experience is that it is hard for people to resolve their own relationship issues because they are part of the problem that they are trying to solve. It is too easy to become attached to your own perceptions of what you think the problem is. Such perceptions can obscure your view making it hard, if not impossible, ether to look at alternate points of view or to develop options for resolving the problem.

Relationship Counsellor

Couples will usually be able to identify that something is wrong but will often struggle to develop a clear perspective of what the underlying problem might be, let alone how it can be resolved. This is where the experience of the relationship counsellor comes in.

A relationship counsellor, who is completely independent of the problem, is uniquely placed to play a key role in helping clients to find a way forward.

I specialise in helping clients to take a step back, reflect on where you are, where your partner is, and help you to open up the possibilities of finding a direction for moving forward.

Role

As a relationship counsellor, I will encourage the parties to ;

  • Listen to each other
  • Develop channels of communication
  • Build on the positive rather than become too immersed in the negative
  • Develop fresh insights
  • Look objectively at each other’s point of view
  • Identify the repetitive patterns of thinking, feeling and behaviour that are influencing the relationship
  • Identify areas that create a ‘stuckness’
  • Help you to more readily engage with each other’s point of view
  • Identify possible ways for moving forward
  • Move beyond any strong emotions such as anger

If you are interested in couples counselling please call me on 07976 757103 or send me an email through the contact page.


Testimonials

‘The counselling really helped us get our relationship back on track. Your input into that was key. It was really good to have some solid, practical and unbiased advice to help us kick start things. We took your advice and are committed to putting the effort and time into making it work. Our relationship is not only back on track but better than ever. Thanks for all your great work.’

Rajinder & Santosh

‘Our counselling with you has really helped us communicate so much better with each other. We now have the confidence to say what we really want to say but we do so with care for the other person. We more readily open up and share our true feelings. We still have disagreements but they no longer turn into full blown arguments. Our relationship is so much stronger. We cannot thank you enough for your amazing patience, help and encouragement.’

Kelly & Rebecca